tisdagen den 3:e november 2009

How To Give Head To a Guy

You need to love giving head to your guy. That's the absolute most important lesson I can share with you on how to give head in this short article. Techniques, tricks and other practical aspects definitely help, but if you lack the right core intentions, then nothing will help you.

So Why Is This So Important? Because if you don't enjoy doing it, you'll never learn how to give head. And if you don't enjoy doing it, you'll never be enthusiastic about it. And believe it or not, enthusiasm plays a big part of what turns your man on.

What most women don't realize is that men are also very mental creatures. I think that the image or persona of the masculine, sturdy man that lives completely in the realm of logic is a false man. Guys do get turned on by a lot of the same things that you get turned on by. They're not simple physical-needs-only type of creatures.

Say after me;

The Mind Is The Greatest Aphrodisiac!

So what can you do to get him turned on and excited? Even though the ATTITUDE is at the core of it all, there are still subtle ways that you can trigger his mental excitement and turn the heat up. Learning how to dirty talk is one of those things. It's a really potent way of triggering his fantasies and getting the mental imagery going in his head, although it can be hard to learn how to dirty talk properly if you don't have the proper "physical game" to back it up; you should first learn how to give great head before you continue on down that path.

Another way is to give him long, wet stares while you give him a blowjob. The prolonged eye contact gives him a glimpse of your desire and shows him a lot of attractive traits; your lust, your connection and even your submission. Also, don't get caught on that last word.

Some women start thinking "Oh, but I'm not submissive! We're equals!" No. That's not what this is about. Pure, bestial and steaming sexuality is boundless and label-less. Being submissive doesn't make you neither less or more of a person. Neither is true of being dominant. Remember that next time when you are giving him head; leave the character you call yourself at the door and let yourself fully immerse in the sexual experience and take place in a beautiful sexual play between two people.

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